It’s fairly well-known that I love technology, enjoy the benefits it gives us, and I enjoy using social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter, although I am a recent convert to Twitter and still not really all that sure about the point of “microblogging.” Still, that’s for another time.
Occasionally, I have reason to pause and reflect whether maintaining an online presence on Facebook is something I want to do. Some people will laugh at the very idea that I might stop. Just to be clear, I don’t do Farmville, sheep-throwing, jewellery collection or pointless quizzes about people. I don’t reject friend requests from anyone unless it’s obviously someone dodgy. I enjoy the interplay with people I don’t necessarily know personally, the exchange of ideas, the banter with friends. Of course, as a responsible parent, I am not allowing my children to have accounts and even when they are old enough they certainly won’t be online friends with anyone with whom they aren’t already real life friends. However, back to me…
What I value about Facebook is being able to maintain some connection with people who are unlikely to call me and vice versa. I like being able to maintain a connection with some of the young people connected to our church, some of whom we don’t see very often. I like being able to share a joke or blow off some steam at no one in particular.
Today, however, Facebook has intruded into my day in a most personal way and I find that I am totally resentful about the whole thing. A long, and ultimately fruitless, conversation (in which I was not personally involved) started this morning as a courteous dialogue and kept on going all day, intruding into personal family time, and gradually spiralling into something entirely unpleasant and personal. And it was all entirely predictable because questions that invite discussion are very rarely genuine lines of enquiry, rather often behind them lies a supposition, an agenda, a prejudice. Rarely, if ever, do these online debates, be they on Facebook, blog sites or other platforms, ever result in someone having the grace to say they have changed their mind, had their thinking challenged or are grateful for the dialogue. We all say we want dialogue but none of us is really prepared to be vulnerable enough to allow that dialogue to shape us.
Social networking is about community, and in community people see things differently. But sometimes social networking can become a community of cowardice as we hide behind our keyboards and smart phones, lobbing in comment after comment with nothing but text to inform our thinking, and with only text to play with we miss the nuances, the passion, the body language, the confusion, the hurt. And before anyone reaches for the comment button (which you are most welcome to do) I know that I am guilty of this too from time-to-time. My friend Adam Couchman who blogs over here, found a piece by N. T. Wright some months ago which says it all, really, and which is worth repeating (here). Wright himself has had a very public dispute on the nature of justification (with John Piper) but readers of both protagonists will know how this has been conducted with courtesy and consideration at every turn, so it is possible.
Over at the Rubicon, Commissioner Joe Noland has written a very helpful piece about the power of the publisher, “Much ado about…” The Commissioner hits the nail on the head: technology has made anyone who wants to be an all-powerful publisher. We can say what we want, how we want to, but someone once said that with power comes responsibility. Maybe part of that responsibility is about how we treat those who see things differently.
In the early part of the book of Jeremiah, Jeremiah and the Lord dialogue about Israel, the failed community of holiness. Today, for me at least, the online community of social networking failed as a community of holiness. God is not honoured in this. Those who believe they have a prophetic voice to the community of faith need to examine the assumption of that position carefully (Jeremiah 14:14-15). Harsh? Perhaps? But I am the publisher here so what can you do?
In the meantime, may we seek to honour the Lord and bring glory to His Holy Name in every community that we call home.
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